
HOW IT WAS BACK THEN
FORWARD
The four "Uerkvitz Girls" who compiles this
book are great grand children of Rufus and Susan (Kern) Williams.
Rufus & Susan's oldest daughter, Mattie, married Joe Geelsin in
Sumner County Kansas, and bore him four children. The second
Geeslin child, Merle, married Robert Uerkvits. They in turn raise
four girls - Mattie Elizabeth. Carol Joy, Ernestine, and Betty Jo -
during the years of the great depression and dust bowls in Blaine
County, Oklahoma. The following is the recollections of those
four girls.
PREFACE
The four "Uerkvitz
Girls" decided to write about their life on the farm, sometime around
1992
when they were in San Antonio, Texas.
They each started remembering "things" that happened and would
get to laughing so hard; and go on and on just remembering. Carol started writing some and Mattie read
it and said, "Well that's not what I had in mind I want all the funny
stuff" As you remember, Mattie could make any and every incident
funny! She started jotting down on big
pieces of paper and small pieces of paper all of the funny incidents
she could
think of. Ernestine and Betty added to
her enjoyment by adding their memories of when they would get together
in San
Antonio. Carol didn't get there that
often but was piecing together ideas for "The Book".
By this time, Ernestine became a victim of
Alzheimer’s, Carol & Ed moved to Arizona keeping busy by getting
their new
place in shape, and Mattie was starting to have some health problems. From time to time they would jot down
another funny incident. It is now
1999! Betty and Carol realize they now
have to get this story written! They
have read and re-read Mattie's jotting and feel they have them all
grouped so
they can proceed. However, they know it
won't be as funny as if Mattie had written it or as grammatically
correct as if
Ernestine had edited it. Just know they
did have fun!

DEDICATION
We dedicate this book to our
parents, Robert and Merle Uerkvitz.
Daddy passed away on May 30, 1962 at age 75 and Mother on
December 20,
1994 at age 98. Their strong pioneer
spirit gave the "four of us" so much more knowledge of living than
young children today can receive from their parents.
They were married on April 24, 1920. Just
after the war, they had four girls at the very onset of the
"Depression" and "Dust Bowl" days. We
never felt that we were poor because so
many in our area were in the same predicament.
They were remarkable in their
ability to overcome the many perils of the 20's, 30's and 40's. They endured relentless droughts, floods,
and dust storms. These concerns were
never dumped on the four of us. The
financial problems of raising four girls were difficult but we never
felt
that. We had cows, chickens, and a big
garden. So at least we did not go
hungry. Mother was a great seamstress
and made all of our clothes (from the skin out), except our long cotton
lisle
stockings and long underwear with a flap in back that buttoned onto our
undershirt waist.

"THE BEGINNING"
Daddy and Mother met at a
"Box Social" sometime before World War I. A
"Box Social" is usually a fundraiser for a
school. The young girls and ladies
would decorate a box -perhaps a shoe box -with crepe paper, flowers,
lace,
ribbons, etc. They would "doll
up" their box so that it would catch the fellows eyes.
The men and boys would bid on the boxes and
the highest bidder would pay the fee.
The person who brought the box would identify herself and
together they
enjoyed what she had fixed. Daddy
bought Mother's box and they started dating after that.
Soon after World War I
started, Daddy left for France and was on the "Frontline" when
Armistice was signed. He and Mother
corresponded while he was overseas. He
"courted"
Mother for two years when he returned.
They married in Geary, Oklahoma on April 24, 1920.
They moved to a 160-acre farm just 3 miles
west of Greenfield and 9 miles south of Watonga. He
had purchased it for $1,600.
As each of Daddy's "four
girls" were born, we're sure his hopes for a son diminished. Mattie Elizabeth was born on March 18, 1921;
Carol Joy on December 27,1922; Ernestine (no middle name) on January
27, 1924;
and Grandpa Geeslin's "Valentine", as he always called Betty Jo was
born on February 14, 1926.
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LIFE
DURING THE DEPRESSION
It wasn't until many, many
years after we four girls were grown that we would be home reminiscing
and we
realized we had indeed survived a memorable time in history. Ours was a life of out-houses, kerosene
lamps, straw mattresses or feather beds, dust storms, etc.
The great droughts of 1934 and 1936 burned
the land that Daddy worked so hard to protect.
The whole western part of Oklahoma turned into a "Dust
Bowl". We were lucky that our
parents managed to survive rather than pack up what they had left and
head for
California as some families did. Carol
remembers when she married and moved to California how peoples spoke so
degradingly of "Oakies". She
said to them, "You better smile when you say that because I'm an
"Oakie" and very proud of it." If people there even had an
inkling of the hardships "the Oakies" had been through, they might
have been more compassionate. Since
then we have said many times that "the Gamblers" were not in Nevada
casinos but were the farmers, as our parents were.
Daddy never knew whether all his "daylight to dark"
work would bring in a crop, if the wind would cut the newly sprouted
corn or
wheat to the ground and he'd have to replant, or if the late rains
would
"lay the wheat down" so it couldn't be harvested.
Our parents had to be discouraged
and we now feel that they must have been upheld by their belief in God. Church on Sunday was , never debated! The only times we would ever miss would be
because the weather would make the roads impossible to drive over,
someone was
sick or possibly Daddy would have a crop to harvest before an expected
storm. For the neighbors around us, it
was love and sharing that saw us all through the Great Depression.
In the early 30's after the
stock market crash of 1929, banks were closing, jobs were scarce, and
businesses were closing. The country
sank into what is known as "The Great Depression".
Twelve million people were unemployed. Many
farmers lost their farms all over the
United States. How our parents managed
to keep ours is a miracle. I'm sure there
were several, even many years that they were unable to make the yearly
payment
on our 160-acre farm. Those were the
years in the 30's when "The Dust Bowl" ravaged thousands and
thousands of acres of land in the central United States, from the
Dakotas to
Texas. In our area dirt and dust came
from Kansas and Texas depending on which way the wind blew. Dirt drifted so high over the fences that we
could walk over them.
Dust storms were so bad that
when it was learned one was approaching, school was let out early. Sometimes the bus out ran the dark cloud of
rolling dust, and other times it did not.
It could be mid-day yet be so dark from the dust in the air that
we had
to light the kerosene lamps. Homes were
not as well constructed then so dust settled everywhere, especially on
the
windowsills. After a storm, you could
write your name in dust that collected there.
President Roosevelt started
the "New Deal". Farm prices
were so low that he started a program to help fanners recover called a
"parity" check. They were
paid not to grow certain crops believing prices would then go up. We received this check from the government
for not fully planting all the land to crops.
During this time we still
were able to have some chickens, a garden, a few cows, and even a few
sheep and
pigs. We had little, if any, money to
buy coal and wood. Daddy would throw
whole ears of corn to the pigs to eat.
When they finished, we girls would take gunnysacks and gather
the
cobs. They were then used to start the
fire in the house wood burning stove.
Some of our wood came from the wooded area along the creek in
the
southeast corner of our 160 acres. You
read so much about how the banks closed during the 30's.
We don't remember that having much effect on
us. Though we were not sure, it might
have been because we didn't have enough to put in the bank during those
years. Our parents, and many others,
bartered for things we needed.
It was during that time that
Saturdays became known as "Trades Day". Friends
and neighbors visiting during the week would end the
conversation with "See you in town on 'Trades Day"'.
That was because everyone took eggs, milk,
cream and any surplus of anything to our small town of Greenfield to
trade for
what they needed. We left cream and
eggs at Joe Taylor's Produce for 100-lb sacks of Egg Mash for the
chickens. Egg Mash was a powered feed
so the chickens would lay good eggs. We
took some eggs to Awtrey's Grocery Store and traded for flour, sugar,
yeast,
baking powder and coal oil for the lamps.
It was during this time that
the l00 pounds sacks that the egg mash came in started being made of
different
cotton prints for making clothing.
Mother started making our dresses from them.
It would take 3-4 sacks of the same print to make a dress. We girls found great delight when it was our
turn to have something new, because we would go with Daddy to pick up
our new
dress. We would go look up and down the
huge stack of mash and choose one pattern we liked for mother to make a
new
dress for us.
As mentioned before, we had
very little money, but occasionally we "four" had a nickel, maybe
two, to spend. We would choose candy
from Mr. Awtrey's store. This yummy
candy enclosed in large glass cabinets that one could reach in and get
the
piece you wanted. We would also buy a
package of gum. We would enjoy the
candy but couldn't chew the gum, because there were six of us and only
five
sticks of gum. When we got home we
could hardly wait until Daddy would carefully cut the ends off of the
five
sticks. When the ends were measured by
the other sticks, and they were the same lengths, we each had a stick
of gum to
chew. Yes, we put it on the bedpost at
night to save to chew the next day, and the next day, and the next day. Occasionally, one forgot and it would be in
her hair the next morning! What a job
for mother to get out.
Watonga was nine miles north
of us and Greenfield was only three miles east. When
times were such that we went to Watonga to shop, we loved to
visit the drug store and have Mr. George L. Doughtery fix us a big Root
Beer
for $.05 in a frosty mug. Those were
days we looked forward to. The
Doughtery family were friends who went to our church and came out to
the house
for suppers and special occasions.
HOW
WE MANAGED DURING THE DEPRESSION
As most farm families, we had
cows that provided milk and cream and a calf when fattened out,
furnished great
meat. We milked 8-10 cows during the
later part of the depression. Mother
and Daddy both milked them until we were old enough to learn. If you were a good "milker," your
three-gallon bucket would have an inch or two of foam in it when you
finished.
We took our cream to trade
for necessities, so we needed a 4 foot tall Separator for this process. A separator is a tank for milk mounted on an
iron frame. Beneath the faucet was a
little cup with a float and, beneath that, a spout one for milk and one
for
cream.
In the center Before separating
was a whirling bowl that separated the cream from the milk by began,
the
centrifugal force. Before separating
began, the handle had to handle had to be
turned until the bowl spun at the proper speed.
Turning the turned until the separator by
hand took a strong back and arms. After
milking those cows by hand and turning the separator, the farmer really
earned
his cream. Washing the separator disc
was one job no one enjoyed. The discs
were the worst. They were in graduated
sizes from large to small and had to fit 'just right" on the post in
the
bowl. If not rinsed properly with cold
water, before the hot suds bathe it became a slippery , ropy, sticky,
smelly
mess! The 35 discs were numbered so if
you spilled them it took time to get them in order again.
They were slipped onto a larger wire frame,
and they needed to be dried before putting together.
The dry discs were put on the post and a cover on top of that.
For several years, we sold
whole milk. A large truck from Oklahoma
City (60 miles) came every day to pick up the milk in 10-gallon cans. Of the milk kept for ourselves, we let the
ream come to the top after we put it in our icebox.
Mother would then skim it off as needed for cereal, baking,
churning butter, and in summer for making ice cream.
The large garden was a
tremendous amount of work. You can be
sure that we never felt the hunger that so many did during the
"Depression". Every Spring,
Daddy plowed the large garden area to get it ready for planting. It was then time for the ritual of planting. We planted seed potatoes, onion sets, tomato
plants, cabbage plants, peas, okra, squash, carrots, beets, lettuce,
green
beans, radishes, cucumbers, green peppers, turnips, cantaloupe and
watermelon.
Enough of some were planted
so we had plenty to eat fresh, but also enough to can for use through
the
winter and before next year' s crop was ready.
We canned several hundred quarts every summer of tomato juice,
whole
tomatoes, chili sauce, green beans (75-100 quarts), pickled beets,
sauerkraut,
peas, corn, and corn-relish. We also
canned cherries, peaches and made apple butter, plum butter, several
kinds of
jellies, and different pickles like sweet, bread & butter and
pickle
relish. Two wide shelves in our storm
cellar were full by the end of the summer with all of our canned foods.
When the tops of the potatoes
and onions started to "die back", Daddy would plow them up. We girls would follow behind the plow
picking every one of them, large or small.
The smaller ones we would use right away, but the larger ones
were put on
a heavy layer of straw under a shady tree and covered with a tarp. If we still had some remaining in the Fall,
they were moved into the cellar. The onions were tied together by their
tops
and hung in bunches in a cool dark place in the cellar.
Even though we did not have
many fruit trees of our own, we were able to find neighbors who shared
their
crops. The one fruit we enjoyed the
most was the Montmorency Sour Pie cherry.
Mother's dad had a large orchard of 100 trees.
They were not too good to eat fresh, but we looked forward to
the
delicious cherry pies, cobblers and cherry preserves.
So we thought of those each spring as we picked cherries. Grandpa paid us $0.01 for each gallon we
picked that he sold to neighbors
So you see the garden
produce, chickens for eggs & meat, cows for milk & meat, gave
us what
many during "The Depression" did not have.

One of the things few people
today can begin to visualize is life without electricity during "The
Depression" was difficult enough but because the R.E.A.
(Rural Electric Association) had not arrived
to rural Oklahoma, we were without it unti11939.
This meant that we did our
lessons by a coal oil (kerosene) lamp sitting around the dining table. When Mother and Daddy put us to bed
upstairs, they carried a lamp There was no nite-lights left on in case
we were
afraid of the dark! It was just dark in
all our room
No electricity also meant no
running water to do dishes, wash hair, or take a bath.
The drought years we had two or three wells
in order to supply us with enough water house, chickens, farm animals
and in
summer for the garden. Depending on how
much water was needed determined whether we used one or two buckets, or
if we
had to p 10 gallon milk cans on our little red wagon and haul it to
where it
was needed. When we got a Coleman
lantern, we thought it was the brightest light ever.
Doing our homework around the dining table at night by this
light
was a pleasure.
We had two
stoves to heat and
cook with. One was a pot-bellied stove
in the living room, which we called the front room but do not know why. This room was mostly used on Sundays. The other stove was a cook stove and heater
that was in the large dining room. Two
rooms off the dining room were used for storage of pots, pans, dishes
and cooking
supplies and one held the separator for separating the cream from the
milk. Later, the cook stove was moved to
the West
End of those rooms and Daddy build a chimney to exhaust the smoke and
that was
our kitchen.
Our next upgrade for a
cooking stove, was to a coal-oil stove and the wood stove was moved to
the
"Old House". This was a
building, which was a garage for our car a large room attached to it
for curing
and smoking our meats. It was also used
to heat water for doing clothes washing.
Mother would also heat the stove up to make an Angel Food Cake
since she
didn't think the coal-oil stove baked it correctly!
Sometime in the 1940's, we got an electric stove and
refrigerator.
Now you realize if you had no
electricity and you wanted a hot bath, especially in the winter, it
meant
hauling the water and heating it on the stove.
We had the usual round tub for many years for bathing. We finally bought an oblong oval tub and
that was really "uptown" to take our bathes in it, because it was
longer and we could stretch out more.
Perhaps what is
hardest for
some to imagine is having to go outside to use the bathroom, whether it
was day
or night, hot or cold, or in the rain or snow.
We had the usual "chamber" but it was to be used if you had to
"go" during the night.
Emptying that chamber was one chore none of us enjoyed, but we
sure appreciated
being able to use it on cold dark nights.
President Franklin Delano
Roosevelt's "New Deal" in the late 1930's put people to work during
"The Depression". It gave us
a fancy (at least we thought so) new "outhouse"! One
program was the W.P.A., Works Progress
Administration, which was founded in 1935 to provide work for the needy
people
on the public work projects. Men were
hired in that program to do many different jobs. One
was to construct cement floor for "outhouses" and
walls of tongue and groove boards. The
"stool" was made of cement instead of wood. A
lid on hinges could be closed and a 6” pipe back of it extended
through the roof to allow for better ventilation. It
came with a deeper pit so it was not necessary to move it as
often to clean the water material. The
W.P.A. also built a pond on our farm
and planted hundreds of Chinese Elm trees for a windbreak around our
farm to
help the dust storms from blowing all our topsoil away.
Every Monday,
rain or shine,
was "wash day.” This day consumed
the most water. During the summer, we
girls had to carry the water for Mother.
While we were in school, Mother had Daddy carry the water.
Water was heated in a large
black cast iron kettle over a fire built out south and east of our
house. Clothes were scrubbed on the old
washboard
with soap Mother made herself. Soap was
made from fat, rendered out when a pig was butchered, 1 plus lye and
other
ingredients. Tubs for rinsing were set
up on stands that Daddy had made.
The clothes were hung on lines
strung between trees along the driveway.
When we were not tall enough to hang clothes, we hung all the
socks and
handkerchiefs (no Kleenex back then) on the hog wire fence around the
yard.
Getting clothes dry on cold
winter days was another problem. Heavy
clothing, like overalls and long underwear, were hung on hangers on the
clothesline. In the wintertime, they
would be frozen stiff. After being
brought in the house they were hung near the fire to dry.
Soon they thawed and were dry, an early version
of freeze dried!
Later on we took our clothes
to Watonga to a laundry mat that had electric washing machines. Each was set up with 3 tubs for rinsing
etc. We then took our clothes home wet
to hang up. Finally in the 1950's the
porch south of the house was converted to an indoor bathroom and a
laundry/sewing room combination. So
Mother had her first electric washing machine and dryer!
We ironed everything except
sheets, we think. Things were all
cotton and not at all like today's cotton and polyester blends. All our dresses., Daddy's shirts, overalls
& pillowcases had to be ironed. The
clothes were sprinkled with water, carefully rolled up and placed in a
plastic
bushel basket. When Mother thought they
were sufficiently moistened, she placed three irons on the stove to
heat. A piece of hallow metal the shape of
the
iron, with a wooden handle over it., could snap onto the hot iron. We would iron until it cooled.
Then go back to the stove and get another
hot iron. If the fire got too hot so
would the irons and occasionally a garment had a scorch place on it. We were all very glad when polyester fibers
meant little or no ironing.
Since Mother's mother, Mattie
Elizabeth, died when she was 12 years old, we never knew when Mother
learned to
sew and who taught her. However, she
did know how, because she made all of our school clothes from the skin
out,
except our winter "long johns" and cotton lyle stockings!
We wore dark bloomers, with a pocket for our
handkerchief in it under our dress. Our
petticoats were plain except the ones for Sunday school and church had
lace on
them. She also made our coats and
hats.
Each year when we started to
school we had five new dresses. We
usually wore them until they worn out, as we don't remember bearing
"hand-me downs" from one another.
Mother taught us all to sew. We
all joined the 4-H Club when we were nine years old.
None of us remember having anything "store-bought"
until late in high school. There was a
department store in Watonga called Stewarts.
They carried fabrics for sewing lingerie, ready-made dresses,
coats,
shoes, etc. The ready-made things were
up stairs with an open balcony overlooking the downstairs.
My, we thought we were grand when we went
there to try on coats, which wasn't often.
However, by the time we were in high school, we were making wool
dress
and coat ensembles.
OTHER
EVENTS
Besides the 160 acres in the
"home place" daddy rented 80 acres from an Indian named Wilbur
Tabor. This land was 2½ miles from
ours. In payment daddy bought a car for
him now and then. Occasionally, we
would go with Daddy if he was not going to be gone all day. We loved to play with Wilbur's grandchildren
Excerpt from Mattie's
diary... “As we were growing up, our dad rented 80
acres from Wilbur Tabler, an
Indian. The farm where we lived was 160
acres. We had a lot of cotton on the 80
acres, so we would hire black families to "chop” all the weeds out of
the
rows of cotton when the cotton was a small plant. Later
they would pick the cotton when the bole opened up.
The Indian who owned the land had a daughter
and grandchildren there in the summer.
After supper many times, our dad would drive over to see how the
crops
were coming along. We got to go some of
the could tell us just as much Indian lore of his Cheyenne Arapaho
Tribe. During the summer they
would
have Pow Wows there Other Indians came and they would play the drums
and have
their various ceremonial dances. We
could hear the drums late into the night and would lay awake listening
to their
haunting music. When we knew a Joe E.
Louis
fight was to be on the radio., Daddy would let Wilbur know. He would come over and we enjoyed listening
to the fight on our battery-operated radio. Mattie had one of Wilbur's
sons in her class. Also another Indian
in her class, Willy Hale, who in the mid-60's became chief of his tribe. The Indians usually attended their own
school, but a few attended the public school Carol and her family met
him in
his full Indian costume one summer at Anadarko, Oklahoma.
The Indian Tribes from Oklahoma and
neighboring states created Indian City, USA.
Each tribe set up their tepees, which were cone-shaped tents for
sleeping and various ceremonies and wicki-ups.
Wicki-ups were oblong structures made of poles and covered with
fine leafed
shrubs from along the river on the tap and three sides.
They were mainly for cooking in the summer. It was interesting to see
the
way different tribes used the same materials to create totally
different
looks. All kinds of dances were
performed like hoop dance, rain dance, war dances, and many others. Several drummers and no other instruments
performed the various "songs" for each dance. It
sounded all alike to us but the dancers
knew when the music was to end or pause and it was very synchronized. Wilbur never did have a
telephone 'put in. If someone needed
him they knew to call our number and we would go over and give him a
message. Just before Carol and Ed
were
married, a call came for Wilbur. So
Carol took Ed with her and drove over to give him the message. Ed went up to the door with her.
She had to introduce herself as it had been
years since she had seen him. She then
introduced Ed and told him they were getting married.
Ed tells the story that Wilbur said, "Him good man."
However, Ed left out two key words.
Wilbur actually said, "Him look like good man." Mother belonged to Eastern
Star. They met once a month in a large
room above Awtrey's Grocery store in Greenfield at night.
During the school year, when we went with
Mother to "Eastern Star", we would take our school homework and had
to finish it before we could play with each other.
We had full use of the store to run and play "Hide and
Seek", try on the shoes, etc. We
also enjoyed the candy that Mr. Awtrey treated us to.
When the meeting was about over, we would hear marching music
upstairs. We would climb the outside
stairs and wait for it to be over because we knew we would get some
refreshments. Mr. Awtrey had a
"3-Holer" outhouse back of his store and he tells the story about how
one Halloween he kept watch over it as the local boys would delight in
turning
all the outhouses over. The outhouse
was getting pretty old so when he saw them start to turn it over he
said,
"Let her down easy boys, she's pretty rickety." Daddy was a member of the
American Legion, since he was a veteran who fought in France during
World War
I. On "Poppy Day", which was
usually the Saturday before Memorial Day, the Legionnaires' children
would sell
red, paper poppies for $0.10 each in the various towns.
The money received was to benefit the
disabled and needy veterans. All
we children, who sold poppies, received
a big Hershey bar of candy at the end of the day for our service and we
were
delighted. Every fall the
Legionnaires
put on an oyster fry for their families at the high school in
Greenfield. They used the Home Economics
room at the
high school and cooked up huge amounts of oysters.
The women had furnished salads and desserts for everyone. All the children looked forward for this
event, as it was a chance to all play together. When we were small, the
folks
took us to Greenfield for our hair cuts.
John Ridenaur was the barber.
Mother always gave the same instructions: Cut the bangs just
above the
eyebrows, shingle in the back, and sides with just the tip of the ears
showing. We always enjoyed the
"tonic water" he put on last. If you have been around
any
of us after we married and went our separate ways, you can be sure we
were
always "on the look out" for a "Rawleigh Man". As
"kids", we delighted in seeing
the Rawleigh Man drive in. He was from
our church and drove the countryside selling spices, vanilla, tapioca,
ointments, fly spray and many other products.
He would open two large suitcases in the middle of the room,
undo the
divider that held everything in place and we sat around them. Mother had always used their vanilla and
lemon extract, cinnamon, nutmeg, and cloves.
We all used them even after we were away from home.
Usually one or more of us had someone
selling the products. Now Carol has a
supplier she found in Phoenix and supplies Betty, Donna, and Renee, as
they
need anything. Before electricity, we had
to
depend on an "ice box" to refrigerate things. The
"ice box" would hold a 100-lb
slab of ice. When we went to town to get
it, daddy would put a large tarp on the back floor and seat in the car. The ice would be put on the floor in the
back seat, and wrapped the tarp around it.
Since there was no room for our feet we sat on them. If it were a hot summer day, we would each
pick a spot in the ice and see who could make the deepest hole in it
with our
tongues before we got home. Our telephone was on a
"party line". That meant six
to eight people all heard each other's rings.
Our number was 26F13. That meant
it was 1 long and 3 short rings. Mother
always told us never to say anything we wouldn't want everyone to know
about. It seems there were some who
listened in on every call. One time we
were all in the yard one summer evening and we heard the phone ring a
neighbors
ring. Mother told one of us to run in
and listen as Mrs. Dickens had been
sick and she wondered how she was. It
was all right to do that she said. Another time our Uncle
Ernest
called from Grandpas. He was home from
Rush Springs where he was the Principal.
He and mother always chatted a lot.
Mother was not at home but in Greenfield. When
she got home she told us a neighbor saw her and said,
"Merle your brother is home. Then
she said, "You know I wouldn't miss one of your and Ernest's
conversations
for anything!" So we knew some people always listed to our calls. We had very few, if any,
real
toys to play with so we had to make our own fun. We
did have "jacks", a game played by tossing a small
ball in their air and moving the jacks in a specified order. We were only allowed the
card
games called "Rook" and "Old Maid". "Old
Maid" is a series of pairs of
women and men's faces and one really ugly old maid.
We never were happy being stuck with her. We
played " Andy Over" the house
with a softball. We also played
dominoes, marbles, climbing trees, "Tag, Your It", hide and seek, and
making mud pies. Daddy put a long
hollow steel rod about 3" in diameter in the crotch between two trees. It was pretty high so he took the head of an
old bedstead that had bars on it and when he stood it on end against a
tree we
could climb up and reach the rod.
Occasionally, we would fall flat off the rod and it knocked the
wind out
of us. In the evening, we would do
cartwheels and when it got dark enough we would try to catch fireflies. Mother also made
sausage. She would then make the
patties and fry them. They were then
placed in a 5 gallon stone jar. The fat
was poured over them When the jar was filled and fat covered all the
sausage
patties, a plate was placed on the top and taken to the cellar. When
mother
wanted some for breakfast she would scrape away the fat get the number
of
patties she wanted and seal the fat down on the uncovered ones On a
cold winter
morning, mother would make biscuits and gravy to go with the sausage
Mother
also made liverwurst and we sure enjoyed that sandwich in our lunchThe
four of us had our
tonsils out one summer Betty and Ernestine had them out one day, and
Mattie and
Carol the next All went well except for Carol She got very sick from
the
ether. Dr. Cox
took them out for $25 each.
$100 in 1935 was very hard to come by I'm sure. The summers were extremely
hot so we usually moved mother and daddy's bed outside and we four
girls each
had an army cot to sleep on at night. If a thunderstorm came up
we
had to scurry to get everything inside the house before the bedding got
wet. We learned a lot about stars and
could identify the Big and Little Dipper and the Seven Sisters. The story about "the Milky Way"
was interesting to us because we milked cows.
Supposedly a young woman was carrying two buckets full of milk
and as
she walked the milk spilled out on either side of her thus forming "the
Milky Way". The fourth of July was
always
a day to look forward to. We usually
invited two families from church, with their children our ages, to come
out for
a picnic supper and ice cream. Then the
fireworks began with fire crackers, sparklers, and roman candles when
it got
dark. One time one of the city girls
had a Roman Candle backfire and her hand was rather severely burned. Summer storms were not too
frequent in the summer time but when they came, what a scare! At one time we had some poplar trees, which
were tall slender trees, on the south of our house.
When the wind blew hard enough to bend them almost to the
ground,
we knew it was time to head for the cellar.
Mother would grab her purse and daddy would get the axe. In the cellar we kept a
jar
with matches and candles. Occasionally,
the storm hadn't materialized over us, and Mother and Daddy would send
us back
upstairs to bed. Mother said,
"I'll call you if we need to go to the cellar." Carol was a real
"scaredy cat". She would lay
awake and as soon as mother opened the door and said, "Girls", Carol
was up and downstairs in a flash before mother finished saying, "I
think
we need to go to the cellar. "
Storms took trees down from time to time.
One took the roof off our huge chicken houses. We lived about eight miles
from Grandpa Geeslin where a tornado tore through just west of him. One woman a mile west of him was killed as
she tried to get to the cellar. One of
Mattie's classmates luckily had a basement they were down in when their
house
blew away over their heads. They never
found anything to identify as they lost everything. Grandma Uerkvitz made a
"Sun Bonnet Girl" quilt for each of the four girls.
The blocks were from fabric left over from
making our dresses. We each had different
taste in colors. So each of the quilt
blocks was from leftover scraps.
Mattie's quilt in the shades of green, Carol's in lavender and
rose,
Ernestine's in shades of green, and Betty's in shades of blue. We loved to go to the
movies. However, we had to be very
selective because of the cost. We saw
all the Shirley Temple movies and also Sonja Henie.
Others we enjoyed were Nelson Eddy and Jeanette McDonald, Abbott
and Costello, Laurel and Hardy, Our Gang, Deana Durbin, and Gene Autrey. In the summer if there was a movie we wanted
to see, we would do all of our chores plus the ones daddy always did. When he got in from the field, we would ask
if we could go and tell him we had his chores already done. We don't remember ever being turned down. Before Daddy had his own
threshing machine he and other neighbors relied on the traveling
"threshing crew". We did not
know until perhaps the day before which meal we would be responsible
for. Besides a few women of the
neighborhood and
us, there would be at least a dozen men to feed. Breakfast
was the worst to have to prepare a meal for because we
had to get up so early. Mother would
have biscuits, ham or bacon, scrambled eggs, pancakes, coffee and milk. The crew always said farm women were very
good cooks. CHORES Oh my, where do we start?
It
seems we always did chores, but I'm sure a few years we were free! Our first chore was on wash day when we were
to learn how to fold the handkerchiefs in half and hang on the hog wire
fence
around the yard fence. We also hung the
anklets there. When we were old enough
to reach the clothesline, we hung up all the clothes on the line. Of course, everything had to be ironed back
then, so mother taught us early how to do that. We
each had to iron our own things and divided up ironing such
things as daddy's shirts, pillowcases, dish towels, table cloths and
sometimes
even the sheets. No fine polyester
cotton then so everything was starched during the washing process to
make them
look nicer. Sometime while we were in
high school a laundry business opened in Watonga so you could take your
clothes
there to wash. It had six electric
machines set up with three tubs around each of him.
Hoses were by each area and each person could wash and rinse
their clothes. Mother was so grateful
we didn't have to carry water, heat it,
etc. We, of course, took the clothes
home to hang out to dry on the clothesline. We took turns setting the
table, clearing it after dinner and washing and drying dishes. A chart was made to keep track of who did
what when and whose turn it was for each job.
We never fussed. We just did our
job. Another job was keeping
the
two-gallon wooden water bucket filled for drinking water.
We had a well at the edge of the south
porch. It had a two or three-foot long
cylinder about six-inch diameter attached to a long rope.
The rope went over a pulley attached to a
2x4 frame. We had to lower it into the
well, wait until it filled and then pull it up quickly.
We would hold it over the bucket and lift a
plunger to let the water into it. None
of us like to get water after dark. So
when we had our wits about us we would volunteer during the day, so we
would
not have to get it after dark. We always worked in the
garden. When very young, we would help
pull weeds. This is when we learned to
tell the difference between weeds and plants!
As we got older we would pick beans, snap peas and then wash and
get
them ready for cooking. We also hauled
water from various wells in 10-gallon milk cans on our little red wagon
to
water the garden. Harvesting and
canning for the winter was also a usual summer chore. One job we really enjoyed
was
hauling in the watermelon and cantaloupe to the house area. We would place them in the shade of a tree
and Daddy would cover them with a big canvas tarp.
It was kept wet so the melons were cool. If
someone came to visit and they didn't
have any melons, we always shared. Speaking of melons reminds
me
of a job we sometimes had in the summer.
Occasionally, the cows would not come up for the evening
milking, and
one of us would have to take off for the pasture. It
was a short cut to go through the melon patch. We
couldn’t resist stopping to look at the ripe
melons. We would pick up a melon and
drop it to split it open. We would dig
out the heart to eat as we brought the cows in. We
had so many melons we only ate down to the seeds and then gave
the rest to the chickens. We raised a few pigs so we
had one or two to butcher every Fall.
They were kept in a pen north of the west chicken house. We kept their water trough full to
overflowing, so the pigs would have a muddy place to wallow in. We fed them ears of corn after daddy
harvested the corn when mature and dry.
They chewed that corn off the cob very easy leaving the corncob
in the
muddy area. It was our job to take
burlap
sacks and pick up the corncobs. They
were used to start a fire in our big pot-bellied stove in the winter. As you can imagine it was a dirty job, so we
sure took turns on that. Summer meant more jobs for
us
since daddy worked in the field until almost dark.
That meant we had to take care of the chickens.
There were two large chicken houses with
each holding 500 or more chickens. They
ranged in ages from about 1 year old (called pullets) to some 4-5 years
old. Besides gathering the eggs each
evening, we
had to feed them. Two long feed troughs
in each house were where we put the "Egg Mash". It
was a powered feed to make the chickens
lay good eggs. On the ground, between
the two houses we scattered corn. It
was corn that daddy grew. Before the hatchery came
to
Watonga, we ordered our baby chicks and they were delivered by our
mailman. They were in cardboard
boxes. The inside had four compartments
each holding a dozen baby chicks. Small
round holes were around the sides so they could get air.
We probably got 200 or so every year. They
arrived in early Spring and were
starting to lay by September or October. By August, they were large
enough to butcher and can. We all
learned how to cut up chickens. When a
freezer rental unit was established in Watonga, we would put at least
100
fryers there in a space we rented. We
would catch the young roosters and mother would chop their heads off. Then we dipped them in almost boiling water
in order to take the feathers off. We
had to clean them good, remove the insides, cut them up before
packaging, and
then rushing them to Watonga for fast freezing. Summer was also canning
time. By the end of the summer, we had
canned 400 to 500 quarts of vegetables, fruits, jams, jelly, pickles,
relishes,
tomato juices and grape juice to put in the cellar for winter. After daddy had plowed the garden area every
spring, it was planted. It was up to
Mother and we four girls, when we were older, to take care of it since
daddy
was working the fields. It was a large
garden because we had to have enough to use during the summer and also
can
enough to take us through to the next summer crop.
Before we could handle a hoe we pulled weeds and carried water
since rains were not always that forth coming.
We would put a couple of 10 gallon milk cans on our little red
wagon to
haul water from a well by the barn to the garden. The
garden was south of the house and toward the road.
We raised snap peas, green beans, tomatoes,
onions, potatoes, cucumbers, okra, cabbage, cantaloupe and watermelons. In June, we knew it would
soon be cherry picking time. Grandpa
had a huge Montmorency Cherry orchard.
At first, it was fun because we couldn't reach high enough to
pick many. Then besides picking them we
learned how to
seed them. When enough were picked they
were put in a large tub with water in it to wash them.
The tub was on a stool and we four sat
around it with a large kettle on our lap to put the seeded cherries in. We soon became very good at removing the
seed without squashing the cherry too much.
We got our cherries free but we had to seed cherries for Grandma
Geeslin
to can. We seeded enough cherries for
us to can 75 to 80 quarts and about those many for Grandma Geeslin. It was a real chore but often became
fun. You never knew when you put your
thumb into a cherry to extract the seed whether you would squirt juice
in your
face or someone else's face! Cherry
pies along with cherry cobbler and cherry preserves became our
favorites. This next chore or summer
job
was two-fold. It brightened the rooms
and kept the cold out. You would never
guess, it was wall papering. It seemed
that every summer one or more rooms needed new paper.
The old paper was not always removed, unless it had pulled away
from the wall. Several layers of paper
provided insulation, since those homes were not insulated between
inside and
outside boards. The paper was usually a
print so it had to be matched together.
Cutting the long strips had to be exact and we all became very
good at
it. Next mother would mix the paste and
set up a place to lather each long strip.
It was tiring but someone would get paste on themselves or
someone else
so laughter was part of the day too. Excerpt from Mattie's diary
of notes on wallpapering... “When we were all too small to help, we
watched our parent’s cut the
wallpaper in to strips and put paste on.
One stood on a stool and the other on the floor and smoothed it
on the
wall. As we got older, Mat tie and Carol,
being the oldest got to help by putting the paste on the wallpaper and
getting
any tool’s that were needed. Later, we
all got into the act and it didn't take us long to do a big room with
mother's
help. The wallpaper went on the ceiling
first, which was really hard on your neck and shoulders.
Sometimes it would tear and hit the other
one smack in the face. There were times
that we were so tired that we did silly things...like the time Mattie
wrapped
apiece of wet wallpaper around Carol 's leg while she was standing on a
barrel
putting a strip on the wall up near the ceiling. Carol
got real mad for a bit, but then we all had a good
laugh. We were very proud of what we
could help do, it made a room look so new and clean.
Betty complained, since she was the smallest one that all she
ever got to do was put the paste on the paper and that was al! Only did she get to help with the whole
thing was when we older girls were off to college." CHRISTMAS Although we never received
much for Christmas, it was a holiday that was eagerly waited for. As soon as school was out for the holiday
season, we began getting things ready to decorate the tree. We were always able to
drive
to our neighbor to the north of us for our Christmas tree as they had a
canyon
full of them. There were only cedar
trees and the smell of cedar in our later years reminded us of those
early
Christmases. Mother usually sent the
four of us off with Daddy in our car to get the tree.
Her parting words usually were "now don't get one too tall,
Robert!" As we tramped through the
trees first one, then another would yell, "I've found one!" All would
take a look decide no and continue the tour of trees.
After a half- hour or so, we would come to a decision that Daddy
would cut this tree. We would haul it
to the car, tie it on top and proceed home.
After a wooden brace was attached it was set up in our living
room. It was then time to pop the popcorn
and make
long strands of it using a needle and very long threads.
When we had enough of that strung we would
do the same with cranberries. Mother
cut red and green construction paper in small strips.
We would paste ends together.
One red one inside a green until a long chain resulted. We had purchased some strands of red and
green rope that was in use many years and did show its wear. The best time of all was having mother undo
the silvery icicles and give each our share to place carefully on the
branches. When finished we admired it
and would pronounce it the prettiest tree ever! Making candy and cookies
came
next and the Divinity , Fudge, and Peanut Brittle were our favorites. The candy we made when all the relatives
arrived was the most fun of all. The
candy was clothesline taffy. Even when
in college or away teaching we always wanted to have a taffy pull when
we came
home for Christmas. It was called
"Clothesline Taffy" because when it reached a certain stage in the
pulling process the long strands were carefully looped over the
clothesline. When it hardened in the
cold air, the strands were brought in.

Uncle Ernest gave us our
first dolls. Oh how we loved to play
with them and when he gave us ones with hair we were doubly excited.
Butchering a hog or calf
was
a usual fall event. One or two
neighbors would come to help. After the
hog was killed it was hooked up to a pulley that lowered it into a
barrel of
scalding hot water. It was lowered in
and out of the water enough times so it could be scraped clean of the
hair. The next process was to cut it up
into
various cuts. Our parents knew how to
cure and smoke the cuts to make ham and bacon.
We had a smokehouse called the "old house" for that curing
process.

When the corn
matured (
dried
on the cob ), we put the ears into a machine and when we turned the
handle, the
corn came off the cob and fell in a bucket.
We sacked the cobs for use in the wintertime and fed the corn to
the chicken. Also in a 5-gallon milk can,
daddy stored
some oat grain in water. We drained the
water off and then tossed the oats out on the ground for them. When the young pullets started laying we
would get 400 to 500 eggs a day. During
the Depression, we used the eggs to pay for more "Egg Mash". Later on an egg hatchery was started in
Watonga and we sold eggs to them. Only
the clean eggs were sold to them and they had to be placed in the egg
trays
with the small end down.
They were placed
on the breadboard and Mother cracked it into pieces with the handle of
the
table knife. Oh my it was good! We kept it in Mother and Daddy's bedroom,
which was unheated, on a card table. Oh
how we loved to sneak in and get a piece!
On Christmas Eve we'd go
to
church. There was always a play and choral
groups, e were always in. Then came
Santa Claus handing out a red mesh bag with an orange, an apple, some
whole
nuts and peanuts in their shell. But
best of all were the several hard candy.
We were several years old when Mattie told Mother that Santa had
Grandpa’s shoes on! Of course we were
much older when we realized that he really was Grandpa.
When Mattie was in college she started
playing Mrs. Santa and enjoyed handing
out bags of candy. There was rarely enough
money
for gifts. Mother often made us
something. Although mother made all of
our clothes, we always loved something new.
Uncle Ernest always gave us our dolls and when we got ones with
hair we
were overjoyed. Grandpa usually gave us
one dollar, and boy was that a really great gift. One
year Uncle Ernest was quite late getting to
church for the Christmas program. It was
years later when we learned why. It seems
he had bought we four girls a
"Little Red Wagon". He took
it over to our home to put it to surprise us when we got home from
church. Putting it together became a
bigger job
expected. So he left it partially put
together and left a note saying Santa didn't have finish it! The wheels and other pieces were all spread
out on the floor. Daddy put it together
and we enjoyed it for years. After we opened our family
gifts on Christmas morning, we would get ready to go over top Grandpa's
house. After breakfast, we would get
all bundled up for the ride in our car.
It was usually very cold so many times mother would have daddy
bring in
four bricks. would heat these on the
stove and wrap them in a towel. They
were put on the floor put our feet on them.
With a blanket to snuggle in, we were ready for the eight-mile
ride. Since we crossed a river
with
trees all along it, we girls would always sing "Over The River And
Through
The Woods To Grandmother's House We Go". Grandpa had a very large
home. It had five bedrooms, a living
room, a dining room, and a kitchen with a pantry at one end. But, most of all, he had an indoor bathroom! They had running water so we enjoyed the big
bathtub and a commode that would flush!!! 4-H
CLUB 4-H clubs were started in
1920. The 4-H's stood for "Head,
Heart, Hands, and Health". In the
beginning it was mainly for rural children and was nationwide. Each state had a 4-H program run by each
County Home Demonstration Agent. She
worked with young girls and women and a Farm Agent worked with the
young boys
and men. There was one for each county
in each state. Because mother already
knew
how to sew very well, she started early to teach each of us girls. We joined the local 4-H Club when we were 9
or 10 years old. Other than sewing we took
Home Improvement. We could not afford a
chest of drawers in our bedrooms so we learned how to make dressing
tables out
of 2 egg crates. We stood them on end
and put a board across the top. After
finishing the top in the same way we made a gathered skirt to attach to
it. We then had a place for some of our
folded clothes. We also made window
curtains, braided rugs out of fabric left over from our dresses, and
embroidered on feed sacks that we made into pillowcases.
We embroidered our dishtowels made from
chicken feed sacks after mother bleached out the writing on them. Food preparation was one
we
excelled in because mother was such a good cook. Her
mother died when she was 12 years old. So
she and her brother, Ernest, undertook to
duplicate things their mother made.
They both became accomplished cooks.
We entered food such as cakes, cookies, muffins, and pies in the
County
Fair. Some were chosen to go to State
Fair. We went to the State Fair along
with our products and were taught more about how to judge the different
products. Clothing was another area
that we excelled in. We were making a
lot of our own clothes by the time we were in high school, and even
made wool
suits out of men's suits. Our Uncle
Ernest wore suits when teaching school and usually bought 2 pair of
pants with
each suit. Because we were tall it took
2 pair of pants to make a suit for each girl.
We loved going to Oklahoma City ( 60 miles) to Brown's
Department Store
to pick out our wool fabric as the Watonga store did not carry many
wool
fabrics. Betty, Ernestine, and Carol
all went to 4-H Round Up at Oklahoma A&M at Stillwater several
times with
their garments or demonstrations, after having won blue ribbons at the
County
Revue. Ernestine excelled in
public
speaking and twice went to 4-H Round Up with her Timely Topics. She and Carol also went to 4-H Round Up
three times with their Team Demonstrations.
They were: How to Make Cheese, Bug Exterminations In Your Home,
and How
To Use Color In Your Wardrobe. Betty
and Ernestine also won trips to 4-H Round Up with their demonstrations. Betty went in Health twice. Ernestine won a trip to
Chicago for the National4-H Congress.
Betty also won a trip later to National4-H Congress in Chicago,
Illinois. Although, she didn't get to
go, since the war was on and it was cancelled. All in all, we gained a
great
deal through our work in 4-H. The money
we made by entering our projects was helpful in buying material for our
next
projects. Being one of 10 girls from
our county to go to 4-H Round Up in Stillwater gave us a lot of
confidence. One trip that Carol and
Ernestine took to the 4-H Round Up at Stillwater, Oklahoma, in August
1936
ended in tragedy. There were 5 of us
riding home from Stillwater in a car driven by our Home Agent, Miss
Armstrong. We were some 30 miles from
home. As Miss Armstrong was rounding a
curve a large truck was coming from the opposite direction. It
was a gravel road and the truck was somewhat on our side of the
road. Dirt obscured her vision and her
car hit a cement abutment at one end of a short bridge.
Miss Armstrong was knocked unconscious,
Ernestine, sitting beside her, hit her head on the metal piece down the
middle
of the windshield. The girl next to
Ernestine went through the windshield and was killed.
The three of us in the back of the Club Coupe were not seriously
injured. Carol was behind the driver
and because of the short distance in the back seat her knees hit the
back of the
front seat. They were severely bruised
and she had a broken elbow. We four
girls walked a short distance to a filling station.
The first thing a woman there did was asking Ernestine if she
could get a mirror to show how bad her forehead was cut up! They took some 40 stitches in it when we got
to the hospital. They set her broken
wrist and put a cast on it. Carol had
to wear her arm in a sling with her left arm bent so her hand rested
near her
right shoulder. The break was in a
place that could not be put in a cast.
Miss Armstrong had a concussion and broken ribs.
She remained in the hospital for quite some
time. Several years later, Miss
Armstrong took a job with the Home Economics Extension Department in
Stillwater
at Oklahoma A&M College. We girls
visited her when we were in college, and she would cook us a good
home-cooked
meal. SCHOOL
DAYS We all attended school in
Greenfield, Oklahoma just 3 ½ miles from our house.
In 1926, during Mattie's first year, there were no buses. She rode a private car that picked up as
many students as possible, with no seat belts!
However, when Carol started, a year later, they had buses. They were not new by any means.
The windows did not fit securely and on
bumpy roads, the windows would fell down and let the elements in. If cold and rainy, it was a rush to get them
up. Mattie and Carol first
attended a four-room school for the first four grades.
Each classroom opened onto a large
hall. One part of that area was a
"cloak room", which is where we hung our coats, put our
"overshoes" during bad weather.
There was a shelf above the coat rack, where we put our lunches. Large double doors were between the 1st and
2nd grade
and also between 3rd & 4th grade that led down 8-10
steps to the
outside of the building. Each classroom had a large
pot-bellied stove. The teacher, and
sometimes the boys, had to keep the fire going in it during cold
weather. Some of the mothers took turns
bringing big
pots of soup, so we had something hot at lunch times on those cold days. There was no indoor
plumbing. Quite a distance from the
school, there was an "outhouse" for the girls and one for the
boys. Each was a "6 holer" -3
low ones for the younger children and 3 a little higher for the older
children. Our toilet paper was the
Sears & Roebuck catalogs turned in to the school, if they weren't
needed at
home for their own use! The paper was
more like newsprint and not the slick type they put out today! Recess was a fun time,
although the only play equipment was one small swing set.
The girls played "jacks", jumped
rope, "tag you're it" around the building, hopscotch, and
marbles. The boys played ball, chased
the girls to annoy them, and marbles.
Also at recess we enjoyed taking the erasers we used at the
chalkboards
and "dusted them" to make them clean for wiping the chalkboards. Since there was no running
water, there was a large barrel-like container of water in the hall. Each student had their own cup.
It was a collapsible cup made of aluminum
with metal bands about 1" wide each smaller than the one above it. When it was opened, it was probably 4"
high. It collapsed down and had a lid
and we each kept it in our desk. When Mattie was in the 4th
grade, Carol in 3rd and Ernestine in 1st, we had a very exciting,
although, sad
day. Our school sat on a hill at the
southwest edge of the little town of Greenfield. While
at recess, we saw a huge plume of smoke way across town.
We soon
learned it was the new grade school, that was under
construction,
burning to the ground. The four
teachers were crying in each other's arms as we all watched. There was no need to worry because the new
school would be ready by next fall. It
was one time everyone looked forward to going to school.
There were 8 classrooms, a principal's office,
a library , and a large gymnasium. At
one end there was a balcony, large enough to seat quite a few people at
basketball games, plays and other school functions.
A large stage was at the other end for plays and musical
programs. The best feature of all
was
the bathrooms. Each had six stools with
partitions and a door to each one.
There were three or four sinks with running water to wash hands. The drinking fountain in the hall that ran
the length of the building always had a line because only the few
children who
lived in town had running water. The new school was across
the
football field from the high school. We
had a large play area between the school and football field, with more
play
equipment. So, of course, we really
enjoyed recess. After the ride home on
the bus, we girls would race home running about a half a mile to our
house. Each was anxious to tell Mother
the interesting things about school that day.
Also, we were ready for whatever snack Mother had for us. Mother always baked bread
once a week. The bread was usually just
out of the oven when we arrived home. A
slice of warm bread spread with butter and then sprinkled with sugar
was
lip-smacking good. (Carol & Betty
each have a bread machine now and will cut off a warm slice to enjoy
with
butter and sugar!) Occasionally, Mother would rollout some dough, cut
it in
rectangles and let it rise. Then she
would fry it in deep fat. Frosted with
caramel icing was magnificent. One of
those the next day in our lunches was special. As we ate our snack, we
would
listen to our battery-operated radio.
Our favorites were "Jack Armstrong, The All American Boy",
"One Man's Family", and "Ma Perkins". After
that we would have our chores to
do. If time permitted, we got to play
games before suppertime. Then it was
time to do our lessons. Every morning was rather
rushed with four girls getting ready for school, getting our lunches
made, and
watching for the school bus. Our
sandwiches were not too varied -peanut butter and jelly was rather
standard. Occasionally we would have a
bologna
sandwich. If we had cheese on it, that
was a treat. Many times we would have a
piece or two of fried chicken. When we
butchered in the fall, Mother made liverwurst and we certainly enjoyed
that. Perhaps, you would never think
about this next sandwich. Since every
Monday was wash day, and it took all day, Mother would put a big pot of
navy
beans on to cook. That night we would
have a salad, navy beans and cornbread to go with them.
The next day, we would mash the beans,
spread them on the bread, and then top them with some of mother's sweet
pickle
slices. This was not too bad, although,
it was not our favorite. Our favorite,
of course, was to buy lunch. We never
did that until high school and not too often at that.
There was a small restaurant just across from the high
school. For $.10 we would get the
greatest tasting hamburger and a soda.
For dessert in our lunches, we would have cookies or cake and
sometimes
an orange or an apple. A new high school was
constructed during 1939-40 by the WPA for $33,000.
During that time, all the high school classes were held in the
grade school. Partitions were built and
placed in the gymnasium to section off classrooms.
The curtains were drawn on stage and a class held there. Even the hall was used for a room. Carol's class of 1940 was the only one to
graduate from the grade school.
Ernestine and Betty's classes started in the new school in the
fall of
1940. During high school,
Ernestine
played in the band and was also a majorette.
Betty also remembers playing in the band. Although
we all took piano lessons, Ernestine displayed real
talent and learned to play quite well.
She perhaps got that from Mother's brother, Ernest, who played
by ear
and for whom she was named. Mattie was the one who
watched over all of us at school and on the bus. Our
cousin, David Uerkvitz, who is about Betty's age, lived on
the adjoining farm. He could never keep
his shoes tied so when we were near where he got off the bus, he had
Mattie tie
his shoes so he wouldn't get a spanking.
One time she only got one tied and he told her the next day he
got a
spanking anyway! When Mattie became a
kindergarten teacher, learning to tie your shoes, was one of the first
things
she taught them ! Betty and Carol both
played
basketball. When Carol first played the
court was divided into three sections.
Two guards at one end and two forwards at the other. In the middle court were two centers, one
from each team. After a basket was
missed if the guard got the ball, they passed it to their center
teammates, who
in turned got it to their forwards so they could score.
When Carol was a senior, the court was
divided into two parts -three forwards and three guards.
We thought we were really being worked hard.
Now, of course, girls run the full court and
only have 5 players. Betty played
Varsity ball all four years with the court divided in two parts. Mattie graduated in 1939
from
high school and in the fall started college at Oklahoma A&M
(Agricultural
& Mechanical) in Stillwater, Oklahoma, which was some 100 miles
from
us. Mother's dad, Grandpa Geeslin, gave
each of us $50.00 for the tuition for each semester we were in school. He did it reluctantly, because he said we
would never use it but get married and raise a family.
When we each graduated and began working we
paid back the $400.00. He was proud of
us for sure ! Carol graduated in 1940
from
high school and started college in the fall.
She and Mattie roomed in a four-story women's dorm called
Willard
Hall. They worked in the cafeteria
three hours every morning before classes for their room and board. Breakfast and lunch were served cafeteria
style but dinner was a formal "sit-down" meal with white
tablecloths. You were assigned a table
and we sang "Doxology" before being seated. The
eight girls took turns being hostess and co-hostess.
The hostess served the food onto the plates
and passed down to each girl. The
co-hostess served the dessert. We
thought the food was very good. We only went home at
Christmas. Partly because our parents
could not afford to drive the 100 miles to get us and also the dorm was
kept
open during Thanksgiving so we had to work.
It was certainly good to get home that first Christmas. Mattie and Carol had both been so homesick. The next year, of course,
the
Pearl Harbor attack shook us all up in more ways than one.
Our campus was immediately transformed by
the military. At one time we had Army,
Navy, and Air Force men training on campus.
Also, the women's groups, WAVES and WACS always marched in
formation to
classes. So our campus streets were
hard to cross at times. They were also
housed in the men's dorms as the men students were enlisting right and
left. Because we were no longer on
campus, we found new jobs. Mattie and
Carol worked in the campus library.
Ernestine worked for the college newspaper.
It was difficult to find a place for four girls, but we finally
found a duplex apartment. It was much
easier to prepare our meals, etc. In the fall of 1942,
Mattie,
Carol, and all the girls at Willard were moved to Murray Hall as the
WAVES were
given our dorm. We still got up at
5:00AM to work our three hours for room and board, which continued the
remainder of that year in the cafeteria for the WAVES.
Our dorm was very crowded. Rooms
that once held two girls now had four
in them. Ernestine graduated from
high
school in 1942 and was Salutatorian of her class. She
joined Mattie and Carol in the fall of 1942. Mother
and Daddy made arrangements for us to
move out in town to live. The three of
us, and a friend, found a room upstairs in a private home.
We could prepare simple meals in the small
kitchen. There were two beds in one
room and another bedroom was a living room and study room.
We took lots of canned food from home to cut
costs on groceries. A Business and
Professional
Women's club founded a U.S.O. in the large basement of a home several
blocks
off campus. They needed hostess, so
Mattie, Carol & Ernestine helped out.
There was a snack bar with sandwiches, cookies, soft drinks, etc. Also, there was a dance area, reading area,
and several tables for writing letters, playing cards, and other fun
games such
as "Spoons"! The fellows were
all very nice and polite -none seemed nervous or upset about heading
off to
war. We met boys from all over the
United States. There were a number of
married men who waited anxiously for their wives to come join them. It was there that we became acquainted with
a young sailor from Massachusetts by the name of Edward H.
Holland.
You know the rest of that story!
He was nicknamed "Dutchie" and became a regular visitor at our
apartment. When he shipped out he was
assigned duty on the aircraft carrier U.S.S.
Randolph. It was about that time
we needed a new dog on the farm. Mattie
suggested he be named "Randy" after Dutchie's ship.
Randy was not the smartest dog, so Carol
commented on it from time to time. A
long time later when Carol was teaching in Illinois and after Ernestine
met and
married William T. Shirley "Buster",
Carol would receive Christmas, Valentine and other cards from
"Randy". They would ink his
paw and "sign" the card!
Occasionally, "Buster" would talk with Carol by phone and say,
"Hello Carol. This is
"Randy!" It was a very special joke. Mattie graduated in 1943
from
college and got a job teaching Home Economics in Watonga.
She and Dutchie married the spring of
1946. They returned to Stillwater,
Oklahoma, where Dutchie entered college and Mattie worked at the
college
library. She later taught kindergarten
for 23 years in Houston, Texas. Remember, gas and sugar
rationing? Of course not! Betty helped
in the issuing of these stamps at Greenfield High School.
Each person in the family had a
sugar-rationing stamp. When Mattie and
Carol were in the dorm, their books of stamps were given to the dorm
cafeteria. They received them back when
they moved off campus. Each family
received gas-rationing books for car and tractor use. Our canning fruit and
making
jams and jellies took so much sugar it was often difficult to make all
the
desserts we liked because of sugar rationings.
During the summer, Mother experimented with melting different
candies
for the sweetener. A caramel nut candy
was good and we even melted orange slices!
Of course the minute rationing stopped after the war ended in
1945, we
quickly went back to all sugar! During the war, the
government sold Savings War Bonds to aid in the war effort, as the
government
needed more money. The person who buys
a savings bond agrees to lend his money to the government for a certain
length
of time and the government would pay interest on the money it borrowed. Betty sold some $5,000 worth of bonds during
the war years at her local high school on certain days. Carol graduated in August
1944. She always thought she would like
to be a nurse. Learning of the Cadet
Nurses Corps that was started to train nurses for the war, she joined
that
program and in January 1945 started training at the University Hospital
in Oklahoma
City. The war ended August of that year. She finished the year and then decided to
teach after all. Illinois was a state
that paid teachers better than Oklahoma.
A friend of Mothers worked in the College Placement Bureau and
was able
to find an opening at Ridge farm. She
taught in Illinois 12 years before becoming a Home Advisor for the
county she
had taught in so long. She met Ed that
year and they married in 1959. As you can see Betty was
by
herself for three years with Mother and Daddy on the farm, while the
others
three girls were in college. Since all
we girls worked, we were in summer school at least three summers in
order to
graduate in four years. This left Betty
with a lot more work to do, with Mother and Daddy, of gardening,
canning, yard
work, and harvesting. She drove the
tractor,
greased the wheat combine twice a day during harvest.
Also, drove the truck full of wheat, to town to be sold at the
grain elevator. She and her classmates
went
out in the community with their family trucks and hauled in 22,000
pounds of
scrap iron during the Scrap drive to aid in the war efforts. The government was asking for the publics
help. Betty graduated from high
school in 1944 and entered college the fall of that year.
Since Mattie and Carol had graduated, she
and Ernestine roomed together. They
still had to live off campus in a room and boarding home for one year
as the
military were still occupying the dormitories.
Betty walked 10 blocks to work downtown at a "5 and Dime"
store for $.25 an hour for her spending money.
Later she worked at the college library for $.35 an hour. Ernestine continued to work on campus for
the school newspaper. The next year,
1945, they moved into Murray Hall dorm, on campus, as the war was over
and the
military had moved out. The campus was
back to normal. Ernestine being the
"smart one" of the four, graduated from college in 1946 in Social
Science and Journalism with top honor scholars. She
was listed in Who's Who In The Colleges of Americas as an
" A " student. She was tapped
to become one of thirteen pledges to Mortar Board.
The highest status a senior woman on campus could obtain. She then worked for the Red Cross in
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma as a Social caseworker. She
met a sailor while in college, Buster Shirley, and they
married in 1947. They lived in
Stillwater while Buster finished his degree at the college. Both Buster and Betty graduated from college
in 1948. Betty graduated in 1948
with
a Bachelor of Science degree in Physical Education.
She taught school a total of 12 years in Kansas and
Illinois. It was in Chicago that she
met and married John S. Tillman in 1960.
After a huge turkey
dinner,
we would open the gifts. After that, it
was upstairs to play for the four of us with our cousins.
Christmas always meant so much to us when we
were little and it carried on into our adult lives.
There was seldom a Christmas that went by when we were not all
home. Even after we married, we always
tried to make it home. Mattie's
husband's parents were in Massachusetts, so they visited them in the
summer
instead of Christmas. Carol living in
Citrus Heights, California made it impossible to make it to "the
farm" every year. Ernestine's
husband was from Henryetta, Oklahoma so they would either go there
first and
then to "the farm" or vice versa.
Betty and John finally located in San Antonio, Texas and were
able to be
there most of the Christmases. Without
family around at Christmas, it just didn't seem right.
So we were all thankful for the closeness we
shared. Each carried that into each of
our families.